Hola! pt 1

Wow - Barcelona has to be one of the best places I have ever visited! European liveliness, without snobbery and a real 24/7 city. Iconic architecture and a deep pride in their history. I loved this city. Undoubtedly the company helped! More about that and the picture on the left in pt 2.

The trip to Spain started out in Sitges, a half hour bus ride down the coast from Barcelona. Somehow managed to get upgraded to economyplus on the flight over (and back for that matter), which was lovely as the United flight I was on was less than glamorous......really really old plane! Arrived at the B&B to be greeted by a crowed of kiwis and two Australians. It was lovely to see everyone, apart from Michelle and Ruth I hadn't seen any of the others since I left (which is a year and a half ago now).
B&B was everything promised and then some. Lovely big rooms and a lovely welcoming atmosphere. We had booked the place out so only us! They even had an honesty bar....can't remember the last time I went anywhere that had an honesty bar. For Ruth's birthday we had a dinner at the B&B; traditional paella served in a HUGE serving dish and prepared by a local woman who came in specially. Afterwards we headed out dancing and found this cute queer bar that played classics like Oliva Newton John and Cher. Sitges is a cute seaside tourist town and we wandered around alot. If you look at the picture on the left you can see the seawalls. This allows them to claim they have 17 beaches - hmmm, not so much I don't think!

One minor glitch when one of the crowd had their bag stolen while we sat eating lunch (I sat next to a woman on the tourist bus in Barcelona who also discovered she had been pick pocketed at some point during the morning - unpleasant but not uncommon in Spain). Ultimately it was all soughted out and a new temporary passport arrived from Madrid. Given we had two cars we all headed to the Torres Winery - it's a massive producer and exports globally. Funniest part was trying to get back to the B&B - the two cars travelled separately and both had the same challenge......how not to go to Barcelona but rather head south to Sitges. The car I was in did well following a tour bus, until we stopped doing so well and had to back track and start over (well not quite but close!). Turns out the other car (minus the benefit of a tour bus) had to do the same thing - I guess all Kiwis think a like. It was also Jo's birthday so on our last night we went out to a very very lovely restaurant near the beach. Enjoyed a lovely meal outside and our final night before I left with Rose and Jo to head for Bacelona.

Doing stuff

It's been a busy few weeks. First I bought my self a stunt kite. It's very cool (Prism E2) and very "dramatic" to fly. Michelle and I took it out for its first flight last weekend. It was pretty windy down at the beach and I got to figure out really quickly that this kite wasn't going to be for the faint hearted. It came with a DVD and book of tricks. It's heaps of fun and makes a great noise while it's flying. I did get dragged along the beach a little though (accompanied by Michelle's excited screams).
Michelle also announced that she didn't think that I got enough culture and so got us tickets to the Romeros, which, as it turns out, are a very famous guitar quartet. They play classical guitar so not something everyone would have thought to invite me to! They were fantastic! Orignially from Spain it seemed timely to be listening to them in advance of leaving for Barcelona on the 17th.
Saturday I caught up with my pal from work and her husband. Spent a lovely few hours on the deck of their beach house - drinking a very lovely Pinot Noir from the the Santa Cruz mountains - then headed out to dinner in Capitola with them and a couple of their friends. Capitola (I've mentioned it before) is this very cute seaside village not far from Santa Cruz. Not sure how to describe it - upmarket seaside village with the feel of a holiday town and a real buzz in the air - accompanied by very good food and fabulous views. We then went back to one of the friends houses for dessert. Heaps of fun and, very generously, they all paid for my meal.
On the work front it looks like I am going to move to a new contract. Still at Cisco, not the one I origninally wanted......better I think. May know for sure before I head to Spain. I'll fill in more when I know.
If it's not already obvious I'm not heading up to Walnut Creek anymore. No hearts broken and no bad behaviour by anyone (can't under estimate the value of that!). Had a grand time but it wasn't going anywhere. Life keeps moving forward.

Olympic torches

No I am not in San Francisco protesting China hosting the Olympics. Perhaps I should be? I've never been much for "isolationalist politics" (I think I just made that up!). I mean I've always worked within the system. Fortunately I have some friends who don't.....I am happy to feed them as and when they need it - I do my best as and when I can!

Bocce Ball and the life of a new immigrant

I know I haven’t really posted many photos but here is one that has some of my work colleagues and at least one or two who are becoming friends. We had an afternoon of Bocce Ball. What is Bocce Ball? Yeah right, a cultural moment, I had no idea. At first I thought it must be some form of indoor soccer……long story short it is much like Petanque. BB is Italian, Petanque is French. Go figure. NZ took up Petanque not BB; cultural moment. Although a far better cultural moment, and much funnier, was being at the lunch prior and ordering a “Cheddar Burger”……..that the waitress heard, repeatedly (as did my work colleagues), as “Cheetah Burger”. Post actually being able to make my order someone asked if we ate Cheetah in NZ. I assured them we did but that it was expensive, as we had to import it. This, readers, is the life of an immigrant and I speak English, thank you very much!

Taxes, passports and other things

Happy daze - I appear to have successfully completed my first US tax return. Actually it's two returns, one Federal and one State. Tax here is a nightmare to figure out. The only reason I was able to do it myself is because I really only worked the last three months of the year so was below the threshold that allowed me to file for free using an online service provider recommended by the IRS. It also helped that I didn't have anything complicated to declare. All turns out nicely as it seems I get tax refunds on tax I've already paid. Of course I'm also eligible for the tax payer "handout" as part of the "Stimulus Package". All of which isn't quite what it appears as when you read the fine print it is actually a debit against next years tax.....so for people like me whose income will increase beyond the threshold that gave me the credit in the first place - it's really just free money for a year. Not to be complained at but not quite the way it has been sold by the Bush government.
My passport also arrived, much to my relief. I'm fairly confident that, by virtue of it being a new passport that doesn't show my having arrived in the US....I will be stopped at the airport at least once when I fly out to Spain. I have been here just long enough to predict these things (or at least anticipate them) so I'll carry my old passport with me as well. Minor distraction - yay to Spain!
I am quietly, patiently waiting for things to change at work. I've got an opportunity to move onto a new program but really need the blessing of the Executive who is leading the program I am currently on.......at this stage he is reluctant to let me go. My contract is up at the end of April (and easily renewable) but we tried to wrangle it so I could go early and someone back fill. Nope - he wants me to stay and stay after April. Although I can go anytime I want in reality it's better all round if I can go without alienating anybody. He's promised some changes that I might like.....actually I know the changes he is referring to (and know that they haven't actually been discussed with him yet) and I'm not sure he will buy them, nor that they change much in my world. Sigh - in the past I expect I might have been somewhat more agressive about the whole thing. But the world changes (and so have I) so I am working behind the scenes and staying very quiet while others work things out on my behalf. Sometimes it's just best to shut my mouth and trust in the knowledge and experience of those that are older and wiser......either way I am not going to be unemployed and that is a good thing!

But seriously

Would you thank these gals if you were John McCain:

Hoppy Easter

So Easter is pretty much a non-event here. No holiday and I didn't even realize it was Easter weekend until someone mentioned it last Tuesday. We are still doing shifts for the release and have had some intense moments......dull but intense. It does feel a little like it's never going to end and we are supposed to be preparing for another release in May. Affectionately know as the "May Release" it is looking more like the "Anything but May Release". Such is life and I might not even be part of it (I hope I'm not to be honest). There is the possibility of another contract that I'd really really like - not a time to be unemployed in the US so I'm not racing out of this one (it gets renewed on a regular basis) but I've got my eye out for other possibilities. Who knows. Mostly I'd really like to settle into something that works so that I can move into a little place of my own - closer to work. I really like my flatmate and we get along great - both being very self contained - but I think it's time I actually took the next step and started to live a little less like a bachelor student and a little more like someone creating a home. Well I did take one step forward, buying a wine fridge from my landlord. He was having a garage sale (yard sale here) and had a new, unused fridge. Got it for less than half what it would cost new (nice) and he carried it into the house for me....nicer still.
On an even nicer note got word that my passport is winging its way back to me so I will have it in my hand well in advance of grand adventures in Spain (crisis, potential pouting and general grumpiness averted).
Not much else; I've got work (albeit on call) tomorrow (Saturday) then Sunday midday through to midnight. Hopefully no drama so I won't actually have to do anything. I'm going to try my hand at cleaning up our garden, having now asked the flattie what I am allowed to pull out as I don't have a clue what anything is. She was gracious and explained so that even I could understand (she was equally delighted that our yard will be tidy and her vegie planter is being prepared for the next round of planting).

Life in Silicon Valley

I’m holed up in the Hilton in Silicon Valley working shifts for the IT role out. Last night I worked 6pm to 6am……which really just meant sending messages to a whole bunch of “interested” Ciscoites at 6pm, 10pm, 2am and 6am………sleeping in between. Back on duty this afternoon them tomorrow into the office to wait out the end. I really am in the middle of the Valley, surrounded by office buildings and not much else. The room is possibly the most interesting thing to see. I’m all of 10mins from work in case something happens and I have to go in…….which means I can’t really head out anywhere in the absence of a car. On the upside I have a television (which I don’t have at home as I watch movies and TV on my computer). Having surfed the selection I don’t think I’ll ever get another TV………a lot of nothing on!!! Last night, after we’d sent the first round of messages, I went out to dinner with two work colleagues. The restaurant was buried among all the high rises – I never would have known it was there! Food was grand and it was a nice evening, then back to the hotel to work my shift.
Finally booked my tickets for Spain – just got to get the passport back now. Spend the first four days at the B&B then into Barcelona for a few days with Rose and Jo.

Busy times

Work is insanely busy as we head into a big IT roll out. We had a "final practice run" last week as "we" are taking down the IT systems for 54hrs. Every four hours the comms team have to put out a status update to business owners. Yep we do shifts and yep it means putting them out at midnight, 2am and 6am......and through the day. Because the practice run was during the week we did shifts and worked during the day. I'm clearly not as young as I used to be! Got to the end of the week and was shattered. The actual event happens next weekend. Because things could go wrong and we need to be physically on the ground for some of it I'll be staying at a hotel in San Jose for the weekend, work my shifts and be on call to come in. Although I have to be in the office for the last ten hours..or whenever it finishes. Yes I volunteered as I created the "plan" for the weekend. I think it fair to say this type of communications work (IT roll outs) isn't my favourite. I much prefer the corporate "mergers, acquisitions" stuff. Still it's another string to the bow and given I am working in Silicon Valley does open other doors.

Daylight saving started on Sunday so that puts paid to the dark days of winter and rain (I hope).

Now here is an irritating thing. I have to renew my passport and, just to make it complicated, I only have the choice of sending it to London or NZ. I was really surprised. I honestly thought the Consulate in the US would be able to do it. Nope! Currently I am passportless so should I suddenly be offered the trip of a lifetime - I can't go. Actually I don't like being passport less. Years ago I dated someone who was obsessive about having their passport with them (okay that's the way I heard it!). The theory being they could jump on the plane at any time. I thought it showed a lack of commitment to anyone or anything........geeze less judgement and more thought - suddenly I "get it".

Here's my attempt at an "arty" picture.

Not everyone gets shot in America

I've been following the news (as I do) and it seems that most often it looks like the whole of the US is shooting one another. For the record - it's not true. Although I must confess I have met one person who knew someone (well it was their sister) who works for the company that owned the shop in the mall where five or six people were shot a few weeks back (hearing that story was weird). Still I am surprised to discover that, while I regularly mocked the NZ media for reporting every little crime, the newspapers do it here too. And I am talking about the NY Times - go to the Metro Section and it's just like reading a NZ daily (except the distribution for the NY Times is in the millions). I guess community is as big or small as you make it!
Work is insanely busy and there are alot of "politics" going on - at which point I come into my own as "playing the game" (or perhaps I mean "a" game) would seem to be my bread and butter. The next three weeks promise to be very entertaining!
Had a lovely weekend spending a sunny afternoon on the deck of a work colleagues holiday house in Santa Cruz - drinking good wine and eating good food.......looking at the sea, chatting and laughing. Michelle came around on Sunday and we had a nice chat. She's just been awarded a very prestigious scholarship so she can research and write her book (and several other things) based on her dissertation. It's very grand and a wonderful acknowledgment of all her hard work. It does mean she has to move out of Santa Cruz for a while but will still be in California.

Moving along

Life continues to be busy! Tahoe was fun and the snow grand. I really enjoyed snow shoeing and think I’d like to do that more next year. Work is heading into it’s first big event – honestly I can’t believe I’m working in an IT world – hilarious. The Presidential primaries continue to tumble on. Obama seems to be turning the tide but it’s never that clear here. I haven’t got anything particularly exciting planned in the next few weeks but the weather has turned which brings me ever closer to buying the bike.
I've had a lovely blast from the past having been contacted by a "friend" from long ago. It was an unexpected email and welcome. I think that when you live in a world that seldom (if ever) references who you were having a reminder of someone who knew you well (or some days those that know you best) always makes for a moment of reflection and (at least in my case) quiet laughter. I have all too often taken myself all too seriously........not so much these days!

Oddities

This is one of those oddities that appeals to me.........check out the slide show.

ifly

Still getting over being sick but much better! Went to ifly and it was amazing, odd, outside the box.......well worth the trip. It's not like parachuting as there isn't a moment when you fling yourself out of the plane. But it is a blast - well a wind blast - the instructor is in there with you. When you have your body at the right angle you can fly alone - otherwise you need him to adjust your body position....it was odd but fun! And I confess......I'm am a little sore the day after - muscles long unused and I'd still rate myself as fitter than many....but clearly not as fit as some.....okay maybe even a lot of others! Hrumpf.
Elections trundle on and it's deeply fascinating to watch it roll out. Because I don't have a television I get quite a different view of it........TV news reporting here is appalling. Here's a fascinating thing. I've never had an ounce of fascination around celebrity reporting but have become much more interested. Why? I have a theory. On a daily basis I am bombarded with news - information - complexity - stuff and more stuff. Celebrity news is easy, lite (although it is shocking to think that hollywood is probably the only industry in the western world that would tolerate such a high rate of "accidental" deaths............and feel compelled to do nothing about it).
We've broken the back of the bad weather. Nice. Today Alex, Sharon, Maddie and I went to a dog park on the bay - it was lovely. Just to be outside. Kite flyers in abundance including a group of four who flew their kites in formation. I have a stunt kite in NZ that I brought in Montreal many years ago. I'm going to buy another one - I felt strangely envious watching the kite flyers today!
We're off to Tahoe (snow country) on Thursday. Going to try snow shoeing. Will take my camera - I promise to load up some photos. Maddie is coming along and it will be her first time in the snow!

It's just a theory

It is my personal theory, not widely accepted, that like everything else in Amercia, bugs are BIG. I have been sick for the last week...........although suffering heavy bouts of denial. Everyone tells me it's not that the bugs are big here it's just that THIS YEAR they are particularly harsh........hrumpf. This comment sits in the same space as "it doesn't USUALLY RAIN this much". Not unlike New Mexico where it was "the BIGGEST SNOW we've had in 50 years". Either everything is going to hell in a handcart or people are making it up! Rant aside, groundhog day has been and gone and I'm now coming to work in daylight hours and getting home before it is dark - nice.
Work moved into a new flash building. All open plan, with a pool table, bean bags etc etc. Open plan seems to be a surprise to some. Better yet - we hot desk. I like this because moving around all the time freaks people out. It keeps me entertained to watch people look a little startled when they find me sitting at "their" desk! Random fact. The San Jose Cisco campus (yep that's what they call it) has no less than 27 buildings between two and three stories high. There are 12 Smart Carts (shuttles) that ferry us between buildings and I am reliably told that each of them does around 100 miles per day. There are also shuttles that take us to various transit points to catch public transport (that is how I get to Walnut Creek each week - shuttle to the nearest train - BART, a half hour away, catch a train, switch trains and arrive in Walnut Creek where Sharon picks me up from the BART station - she lives within spitting distance but it is very very nice to be met at the station door. All up takes about 2 hrs with a good run). Commuting stories are like talking about the weather here - everyone has a story.
Now check this out. A few weeks back it was Alex's birthday. He's not much into stuff (me neither) so I searched around and found ifly. It simulates free falling when parachuting......well it better.......that's what it promotes itself as. We are all off to have an introductory fly this weekend. The very cutest thing is Alex likes to do adventurous things that "appear dangerous but aren't really" (this according to his mother). This is perfect!

Presidential Primaries and other things

So I am currently watching millions of dollars being blown on the Presidential primaries. Touring around the country, democrats and republicans fight between themselves to choose their presidential candidate. Oddly in some states they let only party members vote – in others they don’t. Surprisingly there isn’t even that much clarity around Clinton or Obama. I read one commentator who said he pitied anyone who came between the Clintons and presidential power………that, I guess, is part of the problem. Nice dilemma for the voters; white woman, black man – I’m desperate to know how the southern states vote!!!
Life is busy and the weathers been trashy (damn cold too). Today is lovely and I am working at home. It’s Martin Luther King day on Monday – Cisco have it off but I have one meeting I have to attend (on the phone of course, very much the done thing at Cisco you can go to a meeting and find there are more people on the telephone than in the room). So I can do it from home, which is a bonus.
Starting to gear up for Spain and feeling very excited about going to Barcelona and the very stylie B&B in the mountains that Ruth has chosen for her four day celebration. So far planning to land, go to B&B hang out for four days then back to Barcelona for a few days then back here – 8/9 days all up. Can’t complain about that!
Went to Cirque de Solei last weekend – very cool.

Random stuff

Okay so this is kind of creepy and kind of cool (in that creepy cool way.........). The NY Times article titled "In A Blog, A Military Man Writes About His Own Death" is about a US Army Major who got posted to Iraq and started a blog (that then moved onto a news site). Before he left he wrote a final entry to be posted if he was killed. He was and this story is about his final entry. It's weird to read and then not. He says he likes to have the last word - so he does.
Weather here has been hellish for the last four days. Don't believe that "it never rains in California". We've had three storms in four days. The place is sodden and many slips. Driving over the infamous 17 is somewhat (but not much) short of terrifying (okay exaggerating and I did manage to not drive home on Friday night........luckily......as it turned into a four hour delay for my rideshare who did have to drive back to Santa Cruz.). Brownouts are common and appear to be taken in stride. So much for the modern western world. The weather appears to be coming right but not before Sharons pool came close to overflowing and has turned an odd shade of green (pool guy will fix it but it makes for an odd backyard feature right now).
Back at work full time, been out socializing with Sharon's friends and generally happy in my world.

Xmas week

I have had a lovely Xmas week. I've been staying in Walnut Creek and working remotely (although infrequently). Xmas day we had some of Sharon's friends over and Alex joined us at midday. Mid afternoon we had a plumbing crisis so I found myself under the kitchen sink repairing the plastic pipes (well trying to rejoin them) and laughing hysterically with Lydia. Crisis averted we sat down to Xmas dinner, including crackers, bought by Michelle. They don't do crackers here as that is a strictly British tradition. Trivia fact, crackers were invented by a London confectioner who based them around bonbons he saw in Paris. Originally he just sold bonbons then he realized that they sold best at Xmas so he developed the cracker! In the evening the others played cranium and Sharon and I lounged around laughing (we played the next day - it really is one of the few board games I do like).
Later in the week we went and watched Charlies War. A drama based on Texas congressman Charlie Wilson's covert dealings in Afghanistan, where his efforts to assist rebels in their war with the Soviets have some unforeseen and long-reaching effects. I really enjoyed it but then I like my political dramas! We also went to see Juno. This was really really good. It's about a young girl who gets pregnant - sounds awful but it's funny and insightful.
I had my biggest birthday treat on the 29th with Sharon taking me to Osmosis, a spa in Sonoma. As an added treat we also stopped at an antique shop that boasts the largest military museum (privately owned)! At the spa we started with a Cedar Enzyme Bath. This was amazing. You literally lay down in heated wood chips that are then heaped on top of you. It really is fantastic........even if it sounds odd! We then had a full body massage followed by the best facial I've ever had. It was an unexpected treat.
Back to work for the second half of next week then back full time the following week. I hope everyone's had a lovely break (well I guess it still is the summer holidays there).

Making an elf of myself and other stuff

Never let it be said that I can't dance and get into the Xmas spirit. I just made a total elf of myself: http://www.elfyourself.com/?id=1671421541 .
It's been a busy few weeks combining hardwork and some adventures! On the adventure front I went to an NBA basketball game between the LA Lakers and the Warriors (local team). WOW. It was amazing. The Warriors won by two points after having lost the eight previous games to the Lakers. Around 21,000 people filled the stadium and, as we arrived, everyone was given a Warriors teeshirt. It was Sharon's treat and she had arranged for Alex to bring his friend Justin (who thought I was an exchange student at College!). Long games they play here - the whole thing took 2.5hrs but there was lots of entertainment. I was sporting a cold so was a little subdued but enjoyed it all.
Work's been busy and I've been thinking about what I really want to be doing. Things will change a lot in the New Year but I'm relaxed about it. For Xmas I am heading to Walnut Creek and Michelle is going to come too. I get to work from home all week so that's grand (no such thing as boxing day here of course). Sharon's invited some friends over and Alex joins us for the second half of the day. I'm looking forward to food and festivities.
My birthday was really nice too. I had the day before off work and stayed at Sharon's ,had a lovely dinner and headed back to San Jose for work the next day. Michelle and I then went out for dinner at a local restaurant I've been wanting to try. All very nice. On the 29th Sharon is taking me on a "unknown" adventure as well.
I'm still looking at bikes and aiming to buy one in the new year. It won't be the tourer yet but Brice and I have come up with a clever way I can have a real touring bike.......get a side car. As tall and strong as I am I really couldn't see how I could actually holdup one of the big touring bikes - Brice and I hit on the sidecar idea at almost the same time. It's a fantastic option and means I can get a real tourer. They add a bit to the overall price but I'm not looking to buy for another year so have time to save pennies and build by credit rating.
Life here moves along quickly and I am feeling very settled. Can't quite believe we are back at Xmas and what a different place I am in. I'm not going away for the holidays but will look for a few local adventures. I've never actually been to Alcatraz but I am going to give a trip to Alex for Xmas so we will all make a day trip of it. Hope everyone has a great break (it's a little cooler here but no snow.......at least that part of life in California is proving correct......but it does rain - although not often). Merry Xmas all.

Daily life

Time is moving quickly and Xmas looms. Nice really as I'm such a sucker for all the Xmas lights, the tree etc etc etc. Every night I drive home past a park that has a massive light display with pirate ships, palm trees, animals etc etc. It's a drive through display so I only see it flashing past between the trees as we drive home on the freeway. Still it never fails to captivate me.
Last weekend we went and saw American Gangster. It's a really long movie and a true story. It was good as far as it went but not one of my favourites. Even though I don't have a television one show I have become obsessed with is Dexter. The story line sounds odd "Orphaned at the age of three and harboring a traumatic secret, Dexter (Michael C. Hall) was adopted by a Miami police officer named Harry Morgan who recognized his sociopathic tendencies and taught him to channel his gruesome passion for killing and dissecting in a “constructive” way: by killing only heinous criminals (such as mob assassins and serial killers of the innocent) who have slipped through the justice system. To satisfy his interest in blood and to facilitate his own crimes, Dexter works as a blood spatter analyst for the Miami police." It really is very good and Dexter is a strangely likable character.
Some adventures planned before Xmas, including going to a dance this weekend and a basketball game the following weekend. We had the consultants xmas function on Monday and I won a door prize.........cool. It was a book voucher so I gave it to my flatmate (poor student so I figured she'd get more out of it). My rideshare is so sweet, she stayed an extra hour and a half later to wait for me so I could go to the Xmas party! Not sure what the break is over Xmas - given it's not that big here. Some weeks I get to work from home (or Sharons) on Fridays so that's a break from the commute.
I am glad I have the exercyle and I have been using it. My gimpy leg needs the exercise and it makes me much happier to feel that I am at least putting some effort into being/staying fit!!! Life is happy - although expect to hear about more changes in the New Year, I haven't quite finished moving around as I need to move closer to the job (or whatever job I might have).

Part 2 of 2: busy times

So we have just had Thanks Giving. This proved to be fun on lots of levels. First off I was able to work from Walnut Creek for the week, so no comute. A little frustrating when the internet was slow but lovely to roll out of bed, put the coffee on and sit around in my PJs. Sharon and I headed to Santa Cruz with Maddie and had Thanks Giving at Michelles. All the trimmings, turkey, pumpkin pie and walking on the beach. All quite lovely. The next day Sharon and I headed back to Walnut Creek to pick up Alex and then we went to the most lovely B&B in the Santa Cruz mountains. Claiming to be both dog and child friendly it really was. We had a fab room with a loft for Alex. Maddie was a charmer of course and thanks to Sharons commitment to her training she is turning into a lovely friendly lab. She's gaining weight rapidly as she grows from a puppy into her adult weight. The whole setting was idyllic. We had a private deck, although the whole place is fenced so Maddie could run free, and this included an out door jacuzzi. All three of us had a late night soak with bubbles and then lit the fire in the room. The other real fun bonus (apart from the most fantastic breakfasts) was the trampoline. Alex loves them and hasn't been on one often so I got to do a little teaching.......yes when I was 10/11 I spent a lot of time bouncing on a trampoline and can even do a few tricks. I haven't been on one for years but could still do sit downs, turns, backdrops and front drops - I wasn't brave enough to try the forward flips but it did all make me laugh alot. Sharon had never been on a trampoline so bravely had a go and perfected the sit down. Alex is 12 so he managed to give most everything a go, as only 12 year olds can. I also did a lot of driving around so that is good for my confidence and now I don't need to think about being on the right side of the road as much! We briefly headed back to Michelle's at the end of the weekend and she came for another walk on the beach with us before Sharon, Alex and Maddie headed back to Walnut Creek. How life has changed. For Thanks Giving last year I was staying in Santa Fe by myself while a visit was on at the ranch. It's nice to feel a sense of change and progress. Xmas is coming of course then Ruth's birthday in Spain.
Oh and on a health note working back in an office has me fixated on how to stay fit so I went and bought an exercycle. Days are getting darker earlier so I figure at the very least I can comitt to half an hour a day. I spent a happy few hours today putting it together and feel quite smug about the whole thing........of course that's only sustainable if I actually get on the bike every day......

Part 1 - busy times

Because it's been a while and I haven't updated I"ve broken this into two parts........one of which I wrote a few weeks back but hadn't posted! Work has been a rolling ride as the program figures itself out. Good learning and, while I am tired at the end of the week (with the commute making for an 11 hour day) I'm learning alot. It helps that I have generally taken a far more relaxed view of life - although I still have my moments. I really do need to start to think a little more about what happens next but in the mean time I'm rolling with it.
I've been having some fine adventures too. Last week Sharon, Alex (her son), Michelle and I headed off to the football. This was very fab and Sharon had got us seats very near the field and one of the goal lines. All the pomp and ceremony with brass bands etc etc and the game itself proved to be quite exciting. It was, however, raining, so we all ended up very sodden along with the other 80000 people who pack into the stadium. Michelle commented that we were looking at the population of Whangarei - although I did point out that more people in this crowd were likely to be employed! For the record "we" lost.
The day before we went to the Bee movie, which was quite funny (although not as funny as Shrek), it was light and entertaining. On Sunday we went dog walking and generally lazed around. Although I did spend an hour or so installing a new outside sensor light at Sharon's house - love playing with electricity!!! Not so much actually but it was kind of fun to figure it out.........I am easily entertained. Michelle and I drove back to Santa Cruz in the evening, after Sharon cooked a yummy dinner. All and all a fun weekend.
During the week Michelle and I went to a poetry reading by Adrienne Rich. This was amazing as both Michelle and I had been introduced to her political thinking in our first year at University. She is clearly a very smart, funny, insightful woman. After the reading we headed out to a very yummy Japanese restaurant.

Being on the 'b' team

So today United Airlines called me and asked if I was still interested in being a flight attendant. Actually they left a message on my cell - I deleted it, I guess my answer is clear. How odd to send such a definitive "thanks but no thanks" and then call back......on my cellphone. Oh well a few months does make a difference and I am in a different place and time (i.e. I guess I am not completely driven to be a flight attendant). As it is I am quite busy enough and reminded that life generally throws you where you are meant to go!

Last weekend involved a little adventure to Carmel-by-the-sea.......yes a really odd name but commonly referred to as Carmel. Imagine, if you will, Queenstown-by-the-sea. Sharon, Maddie and I spent a weekend adventuring. The beach really was spectacular and the town really as dog friendly as a dog lover could hope for. It's only about an hour or so from Santa Cruz - which did mean Sharon had to drive the hour and a half to Santa Cruz first, a big ask on a Friday night. I then drove us to Carmel.......in the dark and quite comfortably given I had been a little nervous about driving in the US before I got my license. We found accomodation that could accommodate Maddie.......it was "rustic" but not unpleasant and clean. She did manage to chew her way through the cord of the coffee machine (Maddie not Sharon) - before we realised - but she's little, it's forgivable. I confessed it to the staff and so far I haven't heard what the penalty is...........it's America, you should never assume anythings gone away until it has but they will be hard pushed to charge me much given the less than high end coffee machine! And I'm way more vigilant about following these things up than I was in NZ.

Job goes well. Every day I learn something new and get some insight into working in the US and for a global company. In terms of my skills it's an evolution not a revolution. I'm not sure what it looks like 12 months from now and I'm not sure that it matters........12months........or six weeks for that matter.......changes everything. I'm happy to roll with it and see what tomorrow brings (as long as I can pay the bills and then some!).

Diplomats decry State policy

Draw your own conclusions..........

Happy halloween

Halloween has to be my favourite US holiday! Grown-ups and kids alike dress-up and there are some very fab holiday candies to be had. After work I met Michelle and we walked down to the Santa Cruz diner (standard diner fare but fresher than most I suspect). We then wandered down onto the main street of Santa Cruz and mingled with the steadily growing crowd of costumed folk. The main street was completely blocked off and I expect it's all going to get very messy later in the evening. The police were out in force and travelling in gangs of five! There really were some impressive costumes though. Walking to the diner we spotted a few very cute kids out trick or treating too. All very fun and home by 930pm.
I had my final motorcycle class on Saturday and we sat our practical test. I was more nervous than I thought I would be but passed - not everyone did which was a bit sad. Now all I have to do is sit the written test with the DMV (Department of Motor Vehicles), hand over my passing certificate and I get my full license. It's not like NZ, here (if you haven't done the safety course) you get a learners permit and can ride any size bike you like. Last I knew in NZ you couldn't ride anything over a 250cc on a learners license, here they don't care. On a learners permit you can't ride on the freeway or at night but they don't care what size bike you are on. Overall I thought the course was really well done and I learnt alot. Extra bonus is doing the course gets me a discount on insurance when I get the bike.
Last night I also had my first California earthquake experience. It was 5.6 and really did make the house shake. People here really hate them and several asked if it was my first experience of an earthquake, I laughingly pointed out all of NZ is on a fault line and we learn what to do in an earthquake at school (or we did, I assume kids still do). Apparently only CA kids learn about earthquakes........I guess kids in Florida and the like learn what to do when hurricanes and tornadoes hit.

Of motorcycles and other things

I am now in the middle of my motorcycle course having had one evening class and a half day practical. I love it and was surprised to find I felt no anxiety at all getting back on a bike. The course itself is really great. The instructor is a female Santa Cruz police officer who runs the police dive squad for the area. She's very good and funny. She has a guy help her on the practical days........he is ex.special forces.......so I found out! The focus is entirely on safety and good basic riding skills. I was lucky, as I had ridden before I got one of the 250s (Honda Rebel cruiser) instead of the very very horrid Suzuki 125s.........these things matter of course, but only to me and the others on the course. It's also been a help that Michelle has leant me her car so I can actually get to the classes - some distance from home in Santa Cruz...........difficult on the Thursday nights when I have to travel from work in San Jose (an hour to SC, then half an hour to class). This has also meant I am driving much more and feel far less intimidated by the whole deal.

This weekend is Halloween. Halloween is my favourite US holiday because it is full of all the odd quirky things I like. People around where I live have decorated their porches etc etc. Little gravestones in yards, flying bats and ghosts and pumpkins galore. When you drive around you see "sales" yards with pumpkins in them for people to buy - it's a little like the Xmas tree lots you see but they do all soughts of things to draw people in. I expect in the scheme of things I'd like to give carving a pumpkin a go but this week is all about the bike course. I am heading to Walnut Creek to go to a Halloween dance on Saturday........that should be interesting.
Here's something I've been meaning to write about for ages but kept forgetting. It has, strangely, made it into Wikipedia...not so strange when you think anyone can put anything in Wikipedia. It's basically a bunch of wooden crosses that have been put on a hillside - one for each soldier killed in the Iraq war. It's been wildly controversial but a very powerful way to send a message. I had heard about it but never seen it until I started visiting Walnut Creek. It's right next to the freeway (or whatever they call something that seems to me to be a motorway). Just one of those US oddities.

While Halloween is almost here everyone is talking about Thanks Giving (towards the end of November....I haven't been here long enough to remember yet but it does bring two days holiday). Before then Sharon and I are off on an adventure with the puppy (staying in a cottage down the coast from Santa Cruz) and I am also going to my first football game. Life isn't at all boring.

Lost in space

No I am not yet lost but life has certainly taken giant leaps and bounds. Dating has turned into a girlfriend and has coincided with starting the new job (although she didn't come with the contract and, no, I didn't meet her at work).
Work wise I am into my first week and have been offered the "opportunity" to present some enhancements to the way communications is currently working with one of the groups in the program. I am getting a fantastic handover from the woman I am replacing (who is off to another project) - it's a shame, we make a good team and I think we could do a great double act. I am learning a whole new language (not only where IT is concerned) but in a business sense. It would seem the "net net" of some discussions are that we have "crisp" communications and much better to refer to peoples diaries as "schedules or calandars".......but these are minor things. The project (which is really a program of activities) is damn big (well the companies damn big) and I have a role in one of the streams of work - this suits me perfectly as I am learning alot watching the "bigness" of it roll out. I have found the most fantastic rideshare person who is happy to work to my timetable and we laugh and chat alot, which is good as most days she picks me up at 645am and I don't get home again until 6pm.......it is about an hour commute. At least I am not driving. Of course I now have a regular 730am meeting and one late one as well.........that is a long day. Language is proving to be a strange thing and understanding what people actually mean - I guess NZ is the same, everything is "coded". I'm pretty direct when I work but have been pausing to get some sense of the culture of the organization and to figure out if what I hear is what people actually mean! Still on balance I am enjoying it and will enjoy it more when I get my first pay packet.
Alongside this I am having a very nice social time having met a very nice Canadian girrrl. She lives nearer to San Fran - hence the weekends out of Santa Cruz and why I have learnt so much about public transport. Last weekend we had a very happy time taking Sharon's (there a name at last) 13 week old lab puppy to the dog park for the first time. This, of course, delights me as I love having Goldfish (the cat) around but have missed dogs since Misha. It's also delightful that Maddie (Madelaine) isn't mine so I get all the upside!
The net net of this is that I am very happy although realise that if I stick with the job I will have to move as Santa Cruz is a tough commute and the road I actually have to travel on is legendary for being dangerous (people do love to share) - although so far I've only seen minor smashes.
Bike course starts this week - YAY.

It is San Fran after all

Last weekend we headed off to the Folsom Street Fair in San Fran; which kind of speaks for itself. This little group did a photo shoot and was among the tamer sights to be seen. I'll refrain from adding more - surf around in the link above to see more! Yes I have started work (and got a cold into the bargain). I haven't got a computer yet so mostly I am at meetings or doing not much else. The project is still in it's early stages so it is all chaotically familiar. Managed to find a woman in Santa Cruz to do a rideshare with so the commute is now only 50mins and she picks me up door to door. She sells commercial real estate and is well travelled so we talk alot - she's got a good sense of humour too so the trip flys by. I am still working on the book and will spend some weekend days updating and adding new chapters now that I have info from NZ. My motorcycle course starts in two seeks (yay.......if not a little scared). Because I can't help but obsess about it here is the bike I want to test drive once I get my license. I quite like the retro look and will get a windshield and saddle bags. Got the boots, now need the gloves and the rest of the outfit. I've been spending most weekends in Walnut Creek so have become an expert on all the public transport options available in the "bay area". Some I have discovered are very nice (read unlike Greyhound) and I overcame my brief fear of navigating the BART system (commuter trains) around San Fran, having realised how damn easy it is. Leaning how to use public transport (strangely) inspires self confidence I have to say. Last weekend I also went to my first baseball game. While "our team" (well you do have to back someone) didn't win I thought there were some good catches..........but was promptly informed that this really just showed that I haven't watched enough baseball (hard to argue). After the game there were fireworks - which were very impressive particularly as, once they had roped off parts of the field, we were able to go and sit around the baseball diamond. The grand adventure continues. Next I want to go to a football match and then ice hockey!

Still holidaying

I am waiting for my background check to come through so haven't started work yet....now each day feels like a special holiday! I might have found a rideshare too. Found a website that connects people and got an email from someone who lives around the corner and commutes to San Jose every day. The joy of a rideshare (apart from not having to use public transport) is that you only need two people in the car to use the car pool lane - very helpful as it is a very busy road!
I went to San Fran (well Walnut Creek.......one date now having turned into several more) for the weekend and had a fab time. Went and watched this movie. It is very very funny in that fab english humour kind of way. We also wandered into the Castro which is the queer centre of San Fran. The streets and bars were packed - mostly with gay men but best of all was the group of guys wearing pink bunny suits just standing on the corner waving and wishing everyone a happy day; no reason, just because they could! Sat in the back of a very funky wineshop and sampled so very good reds as well - had a nice time all up. Ended up in The Haight which is a very lively eclectic mix of shops and restaurants ranging from punk rocker through to good quality (expensive) shoes. All very visually interesting and a bit wacky.
It's been a movie week as Michelle and I also went to see Jodie Fosters new movie The Brave One. Not one of her better ones as it plays the usual formula that she has been running with for a while (you know, nice girl finds her inner badness.......but really she's not so bad even as she goes around killing people......). Certainly didn't prompt any deep reflection by Michelle or I.
I am also wildly excited to report that my new motorcycle boots have arrived - and most likely would have saved me from a foot munching had I worn them some years back. I really am very happy with them. My course starts in mid October and I am simply obssessed by any and all bikes I see on the street (although in the main in Santa Cruz there really do only seem to be Harley's although I do live down the road from the Harley shop so that may account for the numbers I am seeing). The Harley shop recommended the course I am doing - run through the local college. The college provides the bikes and helmets - no idea what size or type of bike. I am hoping they will be bigger bikes (ie 600 versus 250s) just because I am buying a bigger bike. Time will tell I guess.

I have a job

Yes it’s true – I am about to officially re.join the ranks of the gainfully employed……..well paid employment that is! I am contracting to TechProse who have me consulting in a project for CISCO. I am embarrassed to say I didn’t have much of a clue who CISCO were……….but ignoring that detail – honestly I didn’t know much about Treasury before I worked there either – the project is BIG (like 400 people on it), complex, involves systems/processes/culture change. WOW – yes it’s back in communications (I am never ever saying I am giving it up again, my credibility is shot). I had no less than four interviews – two telephone, two face to face and at each turn got more and more excited – I’m as shocked as anyone to have discovered that I might not be done with this comms lark! It just became irresistible. Logistically the commute is a little complicated as I live in Santa Cruz and the job is in San Jose (Silicon Valley) which is about an hour commute north of here and another half hour to CISCO…….but I can most likely get in on a car pool. It’s happening fast………if my background check goes through quickly I start on Monday.....It's initially a three month contract and we go from there (I of course have plans to make myself indispensible).
I am still going to finish the book but it is no longer a full time task and really the time has come to get a job. It has me feel like I am moving onto the next stage of settling in here. I really am feeling very much like this is where I belong.
And on that note I have met a whole new group of very very fun people and launched into "dating" - such a different world. Last weeks mixer was a very fun "eye opener" into queer San Fran. The pool party (which was actually in Walnut Creek about 30mins north of San Fran) was great fun and included a few of the people I had met the night before (and was hosted by the person who took me to the mixer). There was also a very lovely spa pool, reminding me of the Auckland days. Michelle came too which was really nice (it's lovely to have her back and watch her settle into her new little house).
In the interests of expanding my education I also found myself sitting near three guys on the greyhound bus who had recently been released from prison. One was so excited he couldn't sit still in his seat and aspired to nothing more than a $6 hamburger - all three seemed happy to share their excitement with at least half the bus. I did say travelling by greyhound was an adventure didn't I?

That was big

Last week would be classified in my world as "a big week". Not least of which because I sat and passed my practical driving test. I sat the written a few weeks back (no I'm not one to share all of my possible failures in advance so I didn't share that - announcing that I had failed that would have been.......humiliating!). Things of note from both. The written test actually has a lot of driver safety tips in it, rather than the law itself. Each state is different and mostly if you move to a new state you have to re.sit the written test........well actually maybe that's only a rule in California. Because I'm also an international driver I had to do the practical as well. Bloody hell - the thought of it freaked me out for ages then it became clear I couldn't get my bike licence without my drivers licence (well I could but it all amounts to the same thing) and your drivers licence is your primary from of ID for everything here. I booked a two hour lesson with a drivers school (I've not driven since I left the ranch) and wanted some pointers on what the examiner looks for. Glad I did - there are some tricky things to know here. Well not least of which you can turn right on a redlight.......almost always if the road is clear...........pedestrians and bikes are gods (well in theory at least and for the purposes of the drivers licence)........intersections without lights, he or she who arrives first leaves first....you've got to remember who arrives when - tricky. Anyway the test itself takes all of 15mins and involves driving around this complicated set of intersections - they didn't make me drive on the freeway (lucky as I haven't done that at all in California). Now I just need to forget everything I learned and try and keep one step ahead of the crazies on the road.
Went to my job interview. It went really well and they want me to come back next week to meet the next level of managers and the woman whose project I maybe on. BIG BIG scary project..........it was the one I said I wanted. Couldn't help myself, it's only just started and sounds like a really big challenge and that I could learn alot from the woman leading it. Seems most of the project teams have a majority of woman in them. Professionally (to avoid the sniggers), I've never worked with a team where woman are the majority. That should be interesting. Downside of the deal is commuting to San Jose is actually quite a long jaunt if I am relying on public transport. Even with the bike it wouldn't be the best road to commute on. So have been thinking about starting out with getting a "ride share" with someone who commutes from Santa Cruz then if it proves a long term thing will most likely have to move some place closer. Not San Jose - really it is full of these lovely landscaped office towers owned by big tech coys.
Alongside all this I am still doing the book but it will be finished by Xmas and really I can't afford to turn away work that lands in my lap..........well I hope it will!
Been investigating buying motorcycle boots - which might have been a very useful thing to have last time I almost killed myself riding and mashed my ankle. For those that fear - the scars continue to be a reminder that you should wear the right gear and you shouldn't ride when your mind isn't on the game.
Next Sunday I've been invited to a "pool party" in Walnut Creek about 35mins outta SF. It's a good opportunity to meet more people (mixer straight and queer). I've also been invited to a strictly girl mixer in SF on the Saturday. Tricky travelling, will see how it works but at the very least will go to the pool party.
On the quirky side I was walking down the street and this little guy holding a container of the very tiniest origami birds hands me one - not looking for money just sharing the love - that is Santa Cruz for you.

Crashed on take-off

Oh well turns out United don't want newly immigrated 40yr olds with Masters degrees serving coffee, tea and assorted other snacks..............it's fair to say I am not feeling "devastated" and that my bank manager will be somewhat relieved............now have I told you about Yellowstone??? Okay yes, I am still pursueing possibilities in Silicon Valley (I can almost smell the bike oil and hear the engine roar.........).

Labour Day

It is Labour Day here, not that it means much to me as I am not working........and some days I have no idea what day it is. That only becomes complicated on those rare ocassions I have an appointment or I am meeting someone! Anyway I went down to the beach and watched people boogie boarding. There are lots of beaches here but I decided to go down to one that had me wander through the marina - nice.......never let it be said there aren't some very wealthy people in this town. The thing that amazes me at the beach is that the water is freezing and I mean Wellington harbour freezing and the majority of people still aren't wearing wetsuits! No way I am putting my little toshie in that pond - these people are craaaaaaazy. I am not sure but it also looks to me like there is quite a steep drop off once you enter the water so people don't go out that far either. Today's beach had lots of boogie boarders though and I have to say that the boogie boarding crowd were getting their monies worth .......... there were some big dumpers that would be the envy of the Island Bay crowd!!
My flatmate (actually they are called "roomates" here - everyone looks a little blank if I say "flatmate") and her boyfriend call Santa Cruz Santa Crazy - so true! The picture on the right leads to the boardwalk (pictured above) and the sign says "Danger - Live Track, No Trespassing". Note the dude on the track - well what you can't tell is he is the first among a family group wandering across the tracks. Underneath the bridge I am standing on is a hippie/druggie hangout. Mostly harmless - except when they are not. While I frequently walk the railway line between locations (no not this bridge.......but everyone does it - the hippies call it "Walking the Trail" - okay well several hippies saying "hi" to me said I was walking the trail) I avoid the drug hangouts, now that I know where they are.......for obvious reasons.
I took the pictures I've posted here a while back and thought it was time I actually put them up for people to see. There were many more people at the beach today and I was actually on the otherside of the lighthouse you can see in the top left photograph.
The things you can't tell are that at the end of the wharf on the Boardwalk and along the beaches there are "pods, gaggles, schools" or whatever you call groups of seals really close into shore - lovely to watch. Lots of seabirds too (squawking and pooing) and lots of people squealing with delight as they ride the rollar coasters et al - I sometimes go down to the Boardwalk just for the hell of hearing the delight and watching adults and children get beside themselves about being hurtled through time on various rides. It's kinda tacky but fun - I resist the typical fairground food.........and refuse to be too judgemental about those that don't. They are having a good time and I am not the one that has to put their kids to bed full of perservatives and coming off sugar highs.
I've also included a little shot of the entranceway to my humble digs and the cottage itself. There is so much you can't tell about the "collection" of boxes and jumble that stretches way back past the cottage itself. And of course what you see is where you get to once you have wound your way past the villa in front and the driveway - allso full of "hidden treasures". It provides a never ending source of entertainment as different things appear out of the boxes at regular intervals.
To the left is a shot of "Goldfish", who looks a little snotty in this shot but she is a lovely chatty little thing who is.......spoilt. Hates doors being closed, let's you know if you have inadvertantly let your bedroom door closed! Loves to come and sit on top of you in the night.....even if you are lying on your side. We have regular cuddles and she freqently falls asleep curled around my arm - 'tis very sweet.

Oneth again in the USA

It is the first of Sept here so this is the anniversary of my arriving in the USA! It seems like a long time ago that mum and I flew into San Fran, sat in Union Square eating half a panni each and enjoying the combined effects of jetlag and a glass of wine!
Last night we (my flatmate Margaretha and her very lovely boyfriend Zackery) "grilled" - that would be BBQ'ed - then went out and enjoyed serveral very fine cocktails at a local bar..........combined with some hefty debate on politics, academia and life in the USA. 'twas a lovely evening. Today I've been sitting in the sun chatting with someone new I have met (see I am meeting people) and generally having a good time.
Mid last week I got emailed about a job in San Jose (working for a Silicon Valley IT firm) and had a remarkably pleasant telephone interview with the recruiter. All prompted by a job I had applied for in March - they still had my resume and have some comms consulting roles. It's probably the most honest job interview I've ever experienced - the recruiter really wanted to nail down what I could do and how that could fit with what they need and she was happy to talk money.......candidly. Anyway going to meet next week and talk some more. It's a contract role and, yes, it's in comms.
This months been a bit of a tipping point in a whole bunch of ways - really deciding I need to start seriously thinking/looking for work (although I wasn't actively seeking the opportunity that seems to have drifted my way), meeting new and different people (yes I have been doing some "dating" hehehehee - I even surprise myself sometimes) and fixating on how best to fund this bike (well that's what works all about really). For the first time I have really started to see a picture of how my life here could roll out. I feel easier in the world and can feel my mind needing to stretch and expand more..........it's a tragic personality quirk that inevitably leads me to embark on "grand, time consuming, occassionally stressful.........but always entertaining" pathes.
Today I am most happy to be me!

One year on

It’s my Oneth or my W’onth (NZT)………depending on how you view the world. I have arrived in a new and wonderful place; unexpected, challenging, uncertain, new, fun and full of possibility. A year that began with drama and unexpected hurt, characterised by bad behaviour and dishonesty, ends in optimism, delight, genuine happiness, a commitment to honesty and trusting my instincts, underpinned by a deep desire to live out my own personal dreams. These are the things I am celebrating:
- having the courage to live the dream, my dream; it is more than I could ever have anticipated
- the privilege of family, here and in New Zealand; it’s not until you ask that you know how much you are loved
- the privilege of longstanding friendships and the discovery of new friends (here and in NZ)
- writing the book and being determined not to blink from the choice, even on those days I so desperately want to
- letting go of the “things”
- never letting the drama get in the way of my celebrating my mothers 70th in Vancouver, winning my greencard, getting my masters and turning 40 – 39 was a big year; it’s not easy to step around the past and honestly celebrate the immediate when your inclination is to dwell, particularly when you are struggling to make sense of your world. I did step past it…….thanks to my family and friends (old and new)
- knowing I am in the right place, doing the right thing and that my future is here
- strangely and delightfully giving up eating myself (minds out of the gutter)…….I have cuticles……..I no longer gnaw on my fingers…how strange, it is a habit I have had since I was 8 years old
It’s been a helluva year but I’ve no regrets - alright maybe that one girl from San Fran I didn’t email back - oh well in the scheme of life that’s not bad and in the scheme of the last year……more a chuckle than a tragedy.
One thing I would change (although no longer feel personal angst about) – that I’d had the energy, the courage and emotional fortitude to really celebrate and say my goodbyes to the friends I was leaving behind, in body if not spirit. I’ll catch-up with you all in the end and trust that the good people hang around anyway.
Drinks are on me……..it’s a cheap round and expires in 24hrs (just as well – have you ever enjoyed one of my family get togethers………..nothing cheap about that!).

Sorry Telecom.......

Wow - if I was a Telecom shareholder I'd be pissed.........bet the new CE and his cronies get more than that in bonuses this financial year! It's but a drop in the bucket for the big boys. Go Shareholders association I say.
I've been following cave man as it's coincided with this...........these are the things that "entertain" my little populist, mainstream media self!

You have to wonder

The US Army is offering a "quick ship" bonus of $20k if new recruits will go to basic training within days of being accepted, rather than wait six months! The scary part is the recruiting targets are obviously really aggressive - one assumes that the "quick ship" then translates to quickly outta here and off to Iraq and Afganistan. I expect the next scandal will be "substandard recruits graduate basic training".
I have had a somewhat fruitless week - not really concentrating on much. Did go for a couple of nice walks with two woman I have met. One ending in a cafe on the beach where there was a group of about 20 ukulele players having a blast singing and strumming away. It felt all very "tropical island holidayish".
I've been looking into bike gear as well. Now well I don't consider that I am anything other than average height and hands and feet the appropriate size, motorcyle boot manufacturers have a different view. Karen and Brice has some excellent advice about this stuff as they have been touring for 20 years...........no wet feet for them nor clothing that isn't waterproof, and they've tested it in some conditions I hope never to find myself in. Obviously boots are really important but there are limited ranges in women's sizes and mine in particular! Also there's a difference between a riders boot (ie you're up front) and a passengers boot. Mostly about additional padding for gear changing. It looks like I am going to have to go for a BMW boot - label queen to the end I guess as the other better brands don't have my size and Karen and Brice assure me they have never had wet or cold feet! With my gimpy foot I can't really afford to have it get cold........and it is the one I change gears with. I have also resigned myself to the fact I will have to get my riding gear custom made - no way am I going to find anything off the shelf. Investigatings fun and the only thing I really need for the bike course in October are the boots. I could wear other boots but figure I have to get them anyway. Any excuse really.
Initial round of responses from publishers is good - more to come (I hope).
Much thinking and investigating going on around work (nothing re. FA job) as I watch the bank balance quietly bleed itself dry.

Vegemite and cheese sandwich

Happy happy happy, joy joy joy..............I miss sausage rolls too...........I don't care if it makes me a peasant.........you come live on the other side of the world and can't find any of your comfort food!

Back from San Fran

Had a lovely time and really enjoyed meeting Robyn. Was somewhat shocked to discover that her and H have been together for two years and this is really the first time I have actually sat down and been able to chat to Robyn.......met her first at the website launch and then the lesbian ball in Auckland, neither of which provided much room to get to know one another - oh and she did remind me (without judgement) that I had also met her once when I was terribly hungover (does that sound like me.........alright not so much these days, did make me cringe a little though, personal angst nothing more). I guess I have been gone nearly a year so didn't get that much opportunity to meet her before. It was lovely to chat in an animated, rapid fire kiwi way. We wandered around the shops abit and went to MOMA - which wasn't that great as they didn't really have much on show and nothing particularly interactive. Still there were some nice gems including this. When you stand in the centre of the beam of light it's like you are cut off and disembodied heads and shoulders float through the light.......very cool.

Now this was very interesting.....well known, not that I knew it. "Indigo Blue" has around 18,000 items of blue cotton work clothing, folded and stacked on a "floating" steel platform.
At one end of the platform there is an old wood table and chair. A volunteer sits silently at the table, erasing pages of a book: "International Law Situations," a Naval War College publication pertaining to legally defined land and water boundaries. Originally completed in Charleston's if you are interested you can read more here. Just the sought of thing that appeals to me!

The Jazz bar proved to be a winner. We had a quick meal before then qued to get in - just as well we had tickets it was sold out. Robyn pointed out that the set up reminded her of NY, I thought so too. As we qued we could see them setting up the seating and tables (there was an early 7pm show, we went at 10pm). They have these tiny little round tables that you sit at, order a drink and the show gets underway. The woman at the door liked our accents so we got to sit at the front. A woman in the que took a shine to Robyn, which was very cute...........although Robyn was casually indifferent I have to say. Anyway Kim Nalley sang for around an hour and a half and was fantastic. Very engaged with the audience and told a little of Nina Simones history. I'd go back but think you need to pick the performance as the performance is the focus, so you have to be in to it.

Other than that at 6pm I found out my bus was fully booked so went back to the hotel I'd stayed in (which also proved to be an excellent choice, right near Union Square, clean and safe......combined with cheap). Nice man (I think he was Malaysian - I couldn't quite pick his accent but he was very friendly) at the desk remembered me, noted that New Zealand was where Lord of the Rings was made and gaven me a discount on a discounted room and one away from the traffic. All very nice. Caught the 630am bus back to Santa Cruz. Speaking of Greyhound, if you do come to the US and feel inclined to bus between cities (it is very cheap) it will be a "cultural experience". I've seen and heard the oddest people while busing! The worst part is the really really awful bus stations - guess that's why it's cheap.

San Francisco

I'm feeling like a blogging fiend this week, but have realised I'm not actually saying much about what I am doing. Well, happily, I am off to San Fran for an overnight stay on Saturday. Helen's g/f, Robyn, is in town for one night and I am to be the entertainment. Well she's probably more than able to entertain herself, so she's really my entertainment and a little touch of NZ! She wants to go and see some gallery's which is easy and is interested in Jazz. I've done a bit of hunting and booked us into Jazz at Pearls, which is described as a Jazz Club - no jeans or baseball caps allowed (that's what they say so I hope it is true). Best thing is on the night we are going Kim Nalley sings Nina Simone. Nope I don't know who Kim is............apart from the fact that she is described as "a winner of the prestigious "10 Most Influential African-Americans in the Bay Area" award, and this show is a must and a rare tribute." I've decided to trust the critics. I do know who Nina Simone is. Anyway it's all just a bit of a punt....if it's bad I won't be alone and if it's good all the better.
I'm off to sit my drivers license written test this week so that I can book a practical. Glad I read the road code; got some different rules here. I've also been looking at a possible rental for Michelle when she gets back from NZ ('tis very cute, I like it alot).
Funnier yet I have been doing some "email networking" and chatting to a woman in Maine who works at a Carnival. I am now so much better informed about the life of a "Carnie" than I could ever have imagined. I really do like this chatting to complete strangers; why do you suppose I never felt able to do it in NZ? Don't answer - I already figured it out for myself........I already figured out a lot of things about who I wasn't being in NZ! There is something remarkably nice about arriving somewhere with no history and arriving in such a big arse place so that if ever I create a history I want to escape I can just move on!

Gramarphiles

And spelling........"Eats, shoots and Leaves". I know I know I know. There are spelling mistakes and gramatical errors in abundance in the blog - you are mostly too polite to say. I am, as we know, neither a grammar nazi nor a spelling freak.........it's a wonder I ever got employed as a consultant........let alone keep readers here where the spelling and grammar is all to hell. Shut up about the grama and the spellink - well mostly you do. I can hear you even if you don't say it. Mostly when I post I don't care to edit that much. That's the point; the first thing I write is close to the last thing you get. Sometimes I read back and cringe too. But really, when I chatted to you face to face I didn't always get it right then either...........it's free flowing. Sometimes it is enthusiasm, I am thinking faster than my fingers can type.......that's just dumb. For the book I take more care (and I have my little grammar Nazi but a breath away)........that's the point........for the things where, really, it might matter.......I take more care. I love being able to write when there is no book deal pending.....no academic qudos to be gained......no one to care, but me. But then really I want a book deal and academic something.........so that's not all quite true either!

Iraq for beginners

I found this quite interesting. It's called "A Fight for Iraq: A Regional Power Play". Put together by MSNBC it's a relatively short piece on the geopolitical drivers behind Iraq. It explains Iraq itself and then looks at the countries around it. It's not long but if you've got an interest in understanding what's going on in the region it's worth a look. I know it's simplistic and perhaps people more in the know could pick holes - still I thought it was good.......or maybe I just haven't been paying attention and all this is old news to everyone else (quite possible!). It's not about the US at all, and only briefly, towards the end trys to explain why it's difficult for the US to pull out.

Random distractions

I've been playing around with creating a may of My USA. I've put a permanent link on the side but what it displays is all the places I have visited..........visited being a lose term. I have passed through more but have chosen places I have either stayed overnight or spent a reasonable day sightseeing eg Chicago. It's a work in progress and those in the know won't be surprised that much of my US experience to date reflects where K & B have lived! Still there are some "self generated" locations and when I get the bike I'll be able to add even more!
These are the things you can do when you are an unemployed writer!

The day of reckoning

I've been given the nod........it's time to throw the dice and discover if anyone will publish this book. Draft chapters to be sent by the end of the week, several more to be withheld. It's a winner or a loser, to be published or not. More may be required to convince. I'm ready - complete defeat, I hope not............for the first time NZAlien and My Book find a meeting ground. Let's hope or believe both will briefly merge. I seldom accept defeat in the first round....unless I see it as something not worth fighting for. Games on.

Social networking

Well I just don't remember being this confused in NZ.....maybe I didn't care.......but here there are multiple channels for connecting on line. Three quick and easy ones, blogging (clearly my medium of choice), face book........and MySpace. Right then, I chose the blog so that everyone I already knew could keep up with what I was doing. It never occured to me that anyone I didn't know might want to keep up with what I was THINKING..........But apparently it's big here. I've been asked several times if I have a MySpace page. Ummmm no.....seems weird to me. I suppose in someways the blog is the same, except those of you that are reading don't identify yourselves to one another. Well it's all about me - I'm fine with that. I haven't bothered to do enough research on MySpace vs Facebook (secretly thinking it's all in the marketing anyway). I kinda like the bloggers I find - I've surfed into a few MySpace pages and never really thought about Facebook. I guess if I wasn't a blogger (who chose a host who makes it too scary for most to comment) you could all now race in with your opinions. Oh the host I chose wasn't intentional by the way, it was just the first host I came across when I thought having a blog was a good idea - see you all think I am much sneakier than I am sometimes. Anyway I guess that's the difference. Blogging is a little "one way", unless you take the big leap offered by Blogger. Although I could, like the other sites, make my blog private - but then that wouldn't seem to be in the spirit of the thing (at least for me). And I invited some people to read it who may or may not be actively taking up the offer - it would seem rude to now push you away - even if we no longer have contact and I don't have your email address (and you don't have mine). Actually when I reflect on it I think I like just putting up what I think. It's all about me me me...........those of you with my email address let me know what you think (okay sometimes some of you are too polite). Those of you without have to leap into cyber space with me to let me know - few have and that's okay too. Some of you are among the "secret readers" - I've got a counter, I know you are out there. Actually I put the counter on when I went throuh a moment of insecurity many months ago - thinking that no one cared anyway so I'd just stop blogging entirely. The numbers kept going up, I felt gratified, ego satisfied (I really don't care to know everyone that might be reading - unless you think it's important - I just cared that someone was reading and it might be the same small group checking in..........I just cared someone was reading and I wasn't just talking to myself - I now have my book blog for that) so I've kept going. I like that my family read it and I find it hugely funny and ironic that the friends (and family too) probably know more about my life on a daily/weekly basis through the blog than they ever did when I was in NZ. That's my random thought for the day. If you are bored with me go to the header and click on the "next blog" and see what other people are thinking.........avoid the porn (or enjoy it if you have a mind), check the photos on the pages you can't read because they aren't in english (unless I have secret bilingual readers.......that's a nice thought, but I don't think my blog is nearly interesting enough to hold the interest of "random stranger"). Sometimes the "next blog" is good, that's how I found Odd Spot - I've found others too, keep clicking.......there's a whole other world out there!

In sum

Today I took up the somewhat dubious, but no less entertaining, opportunity to summarise my life since Office Cadet School. The class is putting together a DVD of photos etc etc. It's fascinating to see what everyones been doing and how we've variously transformed from 21 years ago! In the spirit of total transparency this is how I described the last 21 years of my life:
"After graduation and two somewhat dull years as a Transport and Catering Troop Commander I left the Army in 1989 and went to Victoria University of Wellington. After completing a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology and Women’s Studies I spent time working as a community newspaper journalist and wondering what to do next! Through a series of events I re-enlisted in the Army in February 1994, as a Specialist Officer in public information. I spent six months as the Assistant Public Information Officer (Army) – working for Bernie’s father, George. Then through an even more bazaar series of events I deployed to Bosnia-Herzegovina as the Public Relations Officer for the First New Force to deploy as part of UNPROFOR. Eight months later I arrived back in New Zealand having grown up a lot and generally looking for something new to do. I went back to my role as Assistant Public Information Officer (Army) and left the Army, again, in 1996 to take up a role in Treasury as the Assistant Director Communications, where I was involved in selling airports and the like. Was then head hunted into the Communications Director role at the then Ministry of Commerce, which we subsequently transformed into the Ministry of Economic Development. Somewhere in there I completed a Post Graduate Diploma in Business Administration.
I leapt out of the public sector and into Fletcher Challenge in Auckland as the Communications Manager for Fletcher Building, just as they were pulling Fletchers apart. Ultimately joined the ranks of the redundant and got employed as a Communications Consultant for Sweeny Vesty in Auckland. Got lured, somewhat foolishly, from there into Fonterra and, with some relief got made redundant. I returned to Wellington, set myself up in my own consultancy while I completed a Masters in Diplomacy and Trade from Monash University in Australia.
Ultimately my dream has been to come and live and work in the USA so I entered the green card lottery and got selected. Arriving in the USA in September 2006 I lived on a Ranch in New Mexico for seven months and now reside in California. I have an online military museum dedicated to women who have served (www.bracketsw.com) and I am planning to buy a touring motorcycle by the end of the year. Currently I am writing a book and wondering what to do next. To say I am a restless soul would be an understatement! Along the way I have travelled a lot, drunk a lot, eaten well and fallen in and out of relationships. Right now happily single and content to keep it that way."
Okay to be fair it naturally has a professional focus. Still it more than amused me to think about what I had done over this time. Can't say I've dwelled long anywhere and those of you reading, who were involved in various phases, could add your own colourful potraits I'm sure! Nice to have a sense of no regrets - that in itself would seem to be an achievement worth celebrating.